This is the response to why I don’t drink alcohol, gamble, smoke or any other questionable social practice.
1 Corinthians 6:12-20 (HCSB) “Everything is permissible for me,” but not everything is helpful. “Everything is permissible for me,” but I will not be brought under the control of anything. 13 “Food for the stomach and the stomach for food,” but God will do away with both of them. The body is not for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14 God raised up the Lord and will also raise us up by His power. 15 Don’t you know that your bodies are a part of Christ’s body? So should I take a part of Christ’s body and make it part of a prostitute? Absolutely not! 16 Don’t you know that anyone joined to a prostitute is one body with her? For Scripture says, The two will become one flesh. 17 But anyone joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him. 18 Run from sexual immorality! “Every sin a person can commit is outside the body.” On the contrary, the person who is sexually immoral sins against his own body. 19 Don’t you know that your body is a sanctuary of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, 20 for you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body.
To help make the moral decisions of your life we must use biblical principles.
There are some great eternal standards of right and wrong that have been set and settled by the Word of God. We call these the 10 commandments:
- 'You shall have no other gods before Me.'
- 'You shall not make for yourself a carved image--any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth.'
- 'You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain.'
- 'Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.'
- 'Honor your father and your mother.'
- 'You shall not murder.'
- 'You shall not commit adultery.'
- 'You shall not steal.'
- 'You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.'
- 'You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's.'
However, there are a lot of issues that are not settled by the 10 commandments. Why is this? Well, first of all, we must be reminded that the bible is not primarily a rule book, it is primarily a guide book. The bible is not a book of minute laws, but a book of many principles.
I’m personally glad it’s not a book of laws, but a book of principles. Let me give you an example: if the bible were a book of laws and rules, what would relate to one age would not relate to another age. Let’s consider obeying the laws of the land. Driving 65 on interstates and 35 on any road not posted makes perfect since to us in the 21st century. But, to the people of Corinth in the 1st century this would have been completely ludicrous! However principles can apply to the 1st and 21st century. Also, there are loop-holes in laws and rules, but not in principles.
One last thought about rules verses principles; rules are for children, principles are for those who are mature. Let me illustrate. When my children were young I had to specifically communicate to them to “stay out of the road” and “stay in the yard!” I was very specific with my instructions and/or rules. But, as they matured I no longer had to tell them to “stay out of the road.” Why? Because they grew to know and understand the danger of playing in the road.
How do you make up your mind what is right and wrong for you?
Allow me to share with you six principles which should come into play as we make our moral decision of what is right and wrong for us to indulge in.
1. EXPEDIENCY (I Cor. 6:12a)
Number one is the Principle of Expediency. Listen to what the Apostle Paul says in his letter to the Corinthians from three different translations:
I Corinthians 6:12a (HCSB) “Everything is permissible for me,” but not everything is helpful.”
1 Corinthians 6:12a (KJV) All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient:
1 Corinthians 6:12a (AMP) Everything is permissible (allowable and lawful) for me; but not all things are helpful (good for me to do, expedient and profitable when considered with other things).
How do I make up my mind what is right and wrong for me? Don’t ask yourself this question, “Is it lawful?” Rather ask yourself this question, “Is it expedient?”
What does expedient mean? The root word is expedition, which means to be on a journey. Therefore, we need to ask, “Will doing this thing, whatever it may be, bring me to my appointed destination or goal? Will it help me in reaching my destination?”
Let me ask you a question, “Do you have some God-given ambitions and goals for your life?” If yes, then a lot of things will be settled for you.
2. ENSLAVEMENT (I Cor 6:12)
Number two is the Principle of Enslavement. Once again, listen to what the Apostle Paul wrote to the believers at Corinth.
I Cor. 6:12 (HCSB) “Everything is permissible for me,” but not everything is helpful. “Everything is permissible for me,” but I will not be brought under the control of anything.
Friends, do you realize that Jesus came to set you free!
John 8:31-32 (HCSB) So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed Him, “If you continue in My word, you really are My disciples. You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
Therefore, you should not be “enslaved” to anything. Are you a free person or is there something that has enslaved you? Review the list below (realize this is not an exhaustive list, but there is enough here to get us thinking in the right direction):
- Pornography
- Lust
- Alcohol
- Nicotine
- Caffeine
- Music
- Television
- Sports
All of these are habit forming vices which can enslave you and bring you under bondage. It has been said of old, “No man is fully free who drags his chain with him!”
3. EXAMPLE (I Cor 8:8-13)
Number three is the Principle of Example. Once again, listen to what the Apostle Paul wrote to the believers at Corinth.
1 Corinthians 8:8-13 (HCSB) Food will not make us acceptable to God. We are not inferior if we don’t eat, and we are not better if we do eat. 9 But be careful that this right of yours in no way becomes a stumbling block to the weak. 10 For if someone sees you, the one who has this knowledge, dining in an idol’s temple, won’t his weak conscience be encouraged to eat food offered to idols? 11 Then the weak person, the brother for whom Christ died, is ruined by your knowledge. 12 Now when you sin like this against the brothers and wound their weak conscience, you are sinning against Christ. 13 Therefore, if food causes my brother to fall, I will never again eat meat, so that I won’t cause my brother to fall.
Wow! There is so very much to be pondered in these verses, but the bottom line is this:
If what I am partaking in or of causes somebody else to stumble, then DON’T do it!
Notice with me, if you will, the later part of the very first verse in this chapter:
1 Corinthians 8:1b (HCSB) Knowledge inflates with pride, but love builds up.
I believe what the Apostle Paul is trying to convey is this, “As you go through life, don’t let your head run away with your heart.” Listen, we are to operate by love! There are some things I don’t do because somebody else may stumble.
It is very selfish to say, “How will this hurt me?!” The far greater and bigger question is to ask, “Will this hurt somebody else?”
Listen to what the Apostle Paul wrote to the believers in Rome:
Romans 14:19-21 (HCSB) So then, we must pursue what promotes peace and what builds up one another. 20 Do not tear down God’s work because of food. Everything is clean, but it is wrong for a man to cause stumbling by what he eats. 21 It is a noble thing not to eat meat, or drink wine, or do anything that makes your brother stumble.
This is the key verse for why I don’t drink, gamble, smoke cigarettes or cigars, and a number of other practices which I may be able to handle!
It’s the Principle of Example!
In the area of alcohol, many will say that “moderation” is the answer. Just don’t get drunk! Well, I have counseled with a number of alcoholics and every one I have spoken with, counseled, and consoled all believed in drinking in moderation! However, it took hold of them and destroyed their homes and families.
Here’s something else to remember about moderation. “What you do in moderation, your children will do in excess!” This is true in every area of your life, including the questionable areas. I love my children too much not to strive to set a Godly example for them to follow. I would hate to think that one day my son or daughters life would be destroyed by alcohol because they watched dad indulge in “social drinking.” I’m not sure I could live with myself.
Oh yeah, by the way, it’s foolish to say that will never happen to me or my family. Listen to what the Scripture says about that mindset:
Proverbs 20:1 (KJV) Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise.
The bottom line is that nobody knows whose going to become an alcoholic! Everybody who drinks in “moderation” thinks someone else will!
Once again, it has been said of old, “First the man takes a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes the man!”
4. EDIFICATION (I Cor 10:23)
Number four is the Principle of Edification.
1 Corinthians 10:23 (HCSB) “Everything is permissible,” but not everything is helpful. “Everything is permissible,” but not everything builds up.
Listen, everything you do is either building you up or tearing you down. We must stop long enough, before making a decision to indulge in a questionable practice and ask the question, “Will this build me up, will it build others up, will it build Christ up? Or, will it tear me, others, and the cause of Christ down?”
In verses 23-24 two basic principles are given to guide us in using our Christian liberty for God's glory:
A. Edification over Gratification (vs. 23)
Paul’s use of “all things are lawful” always refers to questionable practices, the gray areas of Christian living that are not specifically forbidden in the Bible.
The basic meaning of edify is "to build a house," and, by extension, the term refers to the literal or figurative building of anything. It is often used in the New Testament to describe the spiritual growth, or upbuilding, of believers. Whatever contributes to spiritual growth constitutes what is profitable, or beneficial, helpful, advantageous, or useful. Only things that are profitable are able to edify.
When we are faced with a decision about a practice, we should first ask if we have a right to do it. If it is not forbidden in Scripture the answer is yes. But our next question should be, “Is it profitable, edifying, and upbuilding for ourselves and for others?” If the answer to both questions is yes, then we can do it to God's glory. If the answer to either question is no, we cannot do it to His glory.
B. Others over Self (vs. 24)
The second principle for using Christian freedom for the glory of God is even more demanding. Even if something will build us up we should not do it if it is not also for the good of others. Our primary concern should be for the good of our neighbor, a principle contrary to basic human nature.
Philippians 2:3-4 (HCSB) Do nothing out of rivalry or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves. 4 Everyone should look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.
Once again, ask, “Will I be built up and matured in Christ; will I become spiritually stronger?” If not, then it’s wrong.
5. EXALTATION (I Cor 10:31)
Number five is the Principle of Exalation. We need to ask, “Does this thing I’m about to partake in exalt the Lord Jesus Christ?” If yes, then do it, if you have to pause for a split second and ponder that question, then don’t do it!
Everything you do in life either honors or dishonors the Lord. Therefore, we need to ask, “Is God glorified in what I’m doing?”
Can you honestly say, “Lord Jesus, this thing I’m partaking in or of, is what I’m doing for Your glory.”
6. EVANGELISM (I Cor 10:32-33)
Number six is the Principle of Evangelism.
Once again, when deciding on what is right or wrong for you to do, ask this question, “Is what I’m doing keeping me, or hindering me from bringing someone to Christ” If it does, then it’s wrong.
The most important thing on earth for me is for others to know that I love the Lord Jesus Christ and I have a desire to introduce Him to them! Therefore, I do not do a lot of things that may be lawful for me to do..
Conclusion:
In deciding about whether or not to participate in any behavior that is questionable or doubtful, the following principles make a good checklist to follow.
1. Expediency. "All things are lawful for me," Paul says, "but not all things are profitable," or expedient (1 Cor. 6:12). Is what I want to do helpful and useful, or only desirable?
2. Enslavement. I Cor. 6:12b (HCSB) “Everything is permissible for me,” but I will not be brought under the control of anything.” Is the activity or habit necessary, or is it merely an extra that is not really important? Could I possibly become “enslaved” or is this activity “addictive” in nature? If so, run from it! (Ref.Hebrews 12:1)
3. Example. Are we setting the right example for others, especially for weaker brothers and sisters? If we emulate Christ, others will be able to emulate us, to follow our example (1 Tim. 4:12).
4. Edification. Will I be built up and matured in Christ; will I become spiritually stronger? "All things are lawful, but not all things edify" (1 Cor. 10:23).
5. Exaltation. Will the Lord be lifted up and glorified in what I do? God's glory and exaltation should be the supreme purpose behind everything we do. "Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God" (1 Cor. 10:31).
6. Evangelism. Is my testimony going to be helped or hindered? Will unbelievers be drawn to Christ or turned away from Him by what I am doing? Will it help me conduct myself "with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity" (Col. 4:5)?
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